Fine Chocolate! Mr. Darren Sharper
It may be that I am just becoming more aware or it really is a new occurrence, but men seem to be immature in their early 20's. The focus is getting money, women, and grinding. I'm not going to stand in the way of a man bettering himself through education and grinding in his career, but with Black women outnumbering Black men... the mentality that men can have more than one woman and women should learn to accept it is inexcusable. But why can't you get another degree and move up the career latter with a woman by your side. (It is my dream to be a power couple with my significant other.)
I want to know who sets the standard of culture and expectations. Women are chasing men like weaves. So at what point will men not go after every woman he can sleep with and how long can a woman stand her ground in a man's life if another woman is standing by waiting and plotting on how to get close to his bed side.
It is too easy to ask are there any good Black men, but my question is are there any good Black men who are faithful, trustworthy, mature, focused, God-fearing, loyal, independent in all respects, and in their early 20's. I rather wait for an equal that attracts my interest than fall back into old habits of just keeping a man around because I rather not be lonely. Something about this time of waiting for Mr. Right that teaches you patience, strength, and provides ample time for introspection.
Content with the journey... after all the journey is the destination.
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