WTH! He's STILL A Married Man!

Today in the office, a co-worker was sharing celebrity gossip and she made the statement that the guy Fantasia was dating or talking to was not bad looking.

I wouldn't be me of course if I didn't make a statement about the situation rather than just keeping it on the surface. With that said, let's dive in, shall we.


I cannot really understand why Paula Cook would lie about the separation between her and her husband. Now, my spidey senses start tingling because was it that she thought that their separation was over with her husband and that they were on the road to fixing their marriage OR was she hurt and bitter about his relationship with another woman that she wanted Fantasia to feel her pain. You know how they say, "hurt people hurt people," "misery loves company," and "the best way to hurt someone is to hit them where it hurts, in their pockets."


We may never know the truth behind the matter, but in the courtroom the judge handed down that what Mrs. Cook stated about the separation, "That was a lie." (In my Maury voice).



I'm not up to date with the whole scenario, but I pray Paula Cook does not pursue further action on Fantasia. Especially if its all about the money. The world knows you're hurt. Any woman would be, but to attempt to seek your own revenge is pointless and will not ease the pain felt by finding out your husband is with another woman.



I'm a paranoid person, so my next thought, well prior to our office discussion, was that they were acting together to get Fantasia's money. Again, I pray that is not a evil plot in play.




At the end of the day, Separation is still MARRIED! Forget how we like to spin it or what not, but he was still a married man. While we could pass judgement on Fantasia for lying that she even knew the man (which seems like a sign she knew her actions weren't right) and still engaging in a relationship with a married separated man, the truth of the matter is we all make mistakes. Our mistakes however are not revealed on such a bigger platform as celebrities. So, don't throw the first stone.




Real life example of this quote: "A lie can travel halfway around the world while the truth is still putting on its shoes." - Mark Twain


I will admit that I am just upset that she tattooed his freaking name on her! Come on Fanny!


Anywho, Let's stop spreading lies and half-truths like wild fire and let's spread the truth instead. Also, before you believe the stories everyone is spreading, let's check their sources and do our own research. I fall victim to this too, but as I try to do better I encourage you to do the same.